fix: OTR/presence/OMEMO correctness, stanza-id disco gate, build hardening

- OTR: strip the whitespace tag by shifting the full message tail incl. the NUL, not tag_length bytes, so the body is no longer duplicated for messages longer than the tag.
- presence: snapshot the resource fields before connection_add_available_resource() takes ownership, removing a use-after-free in the own-presence path.
- OMEMO: propagate _omemo_finalize_identity_load() failure on connect (log + cons_show_error + stop) instead of leaving OMEMO silently unavailable.
- OMEMO: guard NULL fingerprint decode in _omemo_fingerprint_decode / omemo_is_trusted_identity / omemo_trust and log every decode failure instead of failing silently.
- stanza-id: gate XEP-0359 dedup on disco urn:xmpp:sid:0 (the `by` JID or its domain), falling back to no-dedup when caps are unknown; add functional tests for trusted vs untrusted server.
- accounts: narrow the group-name sanitizer to the characters GKeyFile forbids in headers ([ ] \n \r), keeping `=` and `#`, so read/write stays symmetric.
- build: re-introduce compiler/sanitizer flags in a Pikaur-safe form (opt-in sanitizers, -Wsign-compare) and fix the resulting -Wsign-compare warnings (incl. proftest _mkdir_recursive).fix: OTR/presence/OMEMO correctness, stanza-id disco gate, build hardening

Author: jabber.developer2 <jabber.developer2@jabber.space>

src/command/cmd_funcs.c

@@ -10063,8 +10063,14 @@ cmd_vcard_remove(ProfWin* window, const char* const command, gchar** args)
     }
 
     if (args[1]) {
-        vcard_user_remove_element(atoi(args[1]));
-        cons_show("Removed element at index %d", atoi(args[1]));
+        int index;
+        auto_gchar gchar* err_msg = NULL;
+        if (!strtoi_range(args[1], &index, 0, INT_MAX, &err_msg)) {
+            cons_show_error("%s", err_msg);
+            return TRUE;
+        }
+        vcard_user_remove_element((unsigned int)index);
+        cons_show("Removed element at index %d", index);
         vcardwin_update();
     } else {
         cons_bad_cmd_usage(command);